Ye
shall eat twice every day
from Easter until the Holyrood
day, the later, which is
in harvest, except on Fridays,
and Ember days, and procession
days and vigils. In those
days, and in the Advent,
ye shall not eat any thing
white, except necessity
require it. The other half
year ye shall fast always,
except only on Sundays.
Ye
shall eat no flesh nor
lard except in great sickness;
or whosoever is infirm
may eat potage without
scruple; and accustom
yourselves to little drink.
Nevertheless, dear sisters,
your meat and drink have
seemed to me less than
I would have it. Fast
no day upon bread and
water, except ye have
leave. There are anchoresses
who make their meals with
their friends outside
the convent. That is too
much friendship, because,
of all orders, then is
it most ungenial, and
most contrary to the order
of an anchoress, who is
quite dead to the world.
We have often heard it
said that dead men speak
with living men; but that
they eat with living men,
I have never yet found.
Make ye no banquetings,
nor encourage any strange
vagabond fellows to come
to the gate; though no
other evil come of it
but their immoderate talking,
it might sometimes prevent
heavenly thoughts.
She
must live upon alms, as
frugally as ever she can,
and not gather that she
may give it away afterwards.
She is not a housewife,
but a church anchoress.
If she can spare any fragments
for the poor, let her
send them quite privately
out of her dwelling. Sin
is oft concealed under
the semblance of goodness.
And how shall those rich
anchoresses that are tillers
of the ground, or have
fixed rents, do their
alms privately to poor
neighbours? Desire not
to have the reputation
of bountiful anchoresses,
nor, in order to give
much, be too eager to
possess more. To beg in
order to give away is
not the part of the anchoress.
Make
women and children who
have laboured for you
to eat whatever food you
can spare from your own
meals; but let no man
eat in your presence,
except he be in great
need; nor invite him to
drink any thing. Nor do
I desire that ye should
be told that ye are courteous
archoresses. From a good
friend take whatever ye
have need of when she
offereth it to you; but
for no invitation take
any thing without need,
lest ye get the name of
gathering anchoresses...
It must be a great need
that shall drive you to
ask any thing; yet humbly
shew your distress to
your dearest friend.
Ye
shall not possess any
beast, my dear sisters,
except only a cat. An
anchoress that hath cattle
appears as Martha was,
a better housewife than
anchoress; nor can she
in any wise be Mary, with
peacefulness of heart.
For then she must think
of the cow's fodder, and
of the herdsman's hire,
flatter the heyward, defend
herself when her cattle
is shut up in the pinfold,
and moreover pay the damage.
Christ knoweth, it is
an odious thing when people
in the town complain of
anchoresses' cattle. If,
however, any one must
needs have a cow, let
her take care that she
neither annoy nor harm
any one, and that her
own thoughts be not fixed
thereon.
Because
no man seeth you, nor
do ye see any man, ye
may be well content with
your clothes, be they
white, be they black;
only see that they be
plain, and warm, and well
made - skins well tawed
[tanned ]; and have as
many as you need, for
bed and also for back.
Next
your flesh ye shall wear
no flaxen cloth, except
it be of hards and of
coarse canvass... Ye shall
sleep in a garment and
girt. Wear no iron, nor
haircloth, nor hedgehog-skins;
and do not beat yourselves
therewith, nor with a
scourge of leather thongs,
nor leaded.
An
anchoress must not become
a schoolmistress, nor
turn her anchoress-house
into a school for children.
Her maiden may, however,
teach any little girl
concerning whom it might
be doubtful whether she
should learn among boys,
but an anchoress ought
to give her thoughts to
God only.
Ye
shall not send, nor receive,
nor write letters without
leave. Ye shall have your
hair cut four times a-year
to disburden your head;
and be let blood as oft,
and oftener if it is necessary;
but if any one can dispense
with this, I may well
suffer it. When ye are
let blood, ye ought to
do nothing that may be
irksome to you for three
days; but talk with your
maidens, and divert yourselves
together with instructive
tales. Ye may often do
so when ye feel dispirited,
or are grieved about some
worldly matter, or sick.
Thus wisely take care
of yourselves when you
are let blood, and keep
yourselves in such rest
that long thereafter ye
may labour the more vigorously
in God's service, and
also when ye feel any
sickness, for it is great
folly, for the sake of
one day, to lose ten or
twelve. Wash yourselves
wheresoever it is necessary,
as often as ye please.
When
an anchoress hath not
her food at hand, let
two women be employed,
one who stays always at
home, another who goes
out when necessary; and
let her be very plain,
or of sufficient age;
and, by the way, as she
goeth let her go singing
her prayers; and hold
no conversation with man
or with women; nor sit,
nor stand, except the
least possible, until
she come home. Let her
go nowhere else, but to
the place whither she
is sent. Without leave,
let her neither eat nor
drink abroad. Let the
other be always within,
and never go out of the
gate without leave. Let
both be obedient to their
dame in all things, sin
only excepted. Let them
possess nothing unknown
to their mistress, nor
accept nor give any thing
without her permission.
They must not let any
man in; nor must the younger
speak with any man without
leave; nor go out of town
without a trusty companion,
nor sleep out. If she
cannot read her hours
in a book, let her say
them with Paternosters
and Ave Marias; and do
the work that she is commanded
to do, without grudging.
Let her have her ears
always open to her mistress.
Let neither of the women
either carry to her mistress
or bring from her any
idle tales, or new tidings,
nor sing to one another,
nor speak any worldly
speeches, nor laugh, nor
play, so that any man
who saw it might turn
it to evil. Above all
things, they ought to
hate lying and ribaldry.
Let their hair be cut
short, their headcloth
sit low. Let each lie
alone... Let no man see
them unveiled, nor without
a hood. Let them look
low. They ought not to
kiss, nor lovingly embrace
any man, neither of their
acquaintance nor a stranger,
nor to wash their head,
nor to look fixedly on
any man, nor to romp nor
frolic with him. Their
garments should be of
such a shape and all their
attire such that it may
be easily seen to what
[life] they are dedicated.
Ye
anchoresses ought to read
these little concluding
parts to your women once
every week until they
know it well. And it is
very necessary for you
both that ye take care
of them, for ye may be
much benefited by them;
and, on the other hand,
made worse. If they sin
through your negligence,
ye shall be called to
give account of it before
the Supreme Judge; and
therefore, it is very
necessary for you, and
still more for them, that
ye diligently teach them
to keep their rule, both
for your sake and for
themselves; in a gentle
manner, however, and affectionately;
for such ought the instructing
of women to be - affectionate
and gentle, and seldom
stern.
As
far as ye can, in regard
to drink, and food, and
clothing, and other things
which the wants of the
flesh require, be liberal
to them, though ye be
the more strict and severe
to yourselves; for so
doth he that bloweth well:
He turneth the narrow
end of the horn to his
own mouth, and the wide
end outward. And do ye
the like, as ye would
that your prayers may
resound like a trumpet,
and make a sweet noise
in the ears of the Lord;
and not to your own salvation
only, but to that of all
people; which may our
Lord grant through the
grace of himself, that
so it may be. Amen. In
this book read every day,
when ye are at leisure
- every day, less or more;
for I hope that, if ye
read it often, it will
be very beneficial to
you, through the grace
of God, or else I shall
have ill employed much
of my time. God knows,
it would be more agreeable
to me to set out on a
journey to Rome, than
to begin to do it again.
As
often as ye read any thing
in this book, greet the
Lady with an Ave Mary
for him who made this
rule, and for him who
wrote it, and took pains
about it. Moderate enough
I am, who ask so little.
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